magician..-am i...

"u r a magician"... this is wat i got wen i seeked....me heading to delhi on 27th...noon.. though i wanted to go on 26th evening.. but den its ok... one more day to be wid my sweetypie..

i know baby.. u really dont have time to read... but i really love u... n trust me i ll make u proud someday... and i ll make sure u r permitted in my cabin widout a prior appointment...he he he he!!!!!

me watching movies back to back..

before sunrise..

before sunset..

runaway bride,,

the terminal

and Richard Gere,,, i love u... and i also love Abhay deol.. and we can add Tom hanks .... to that list..

i stick too much to the old school.... pheewwww!!!!

i did my mains coaching from Delhi.. i thought i ll do the prelims coaching from ahmedabad.. so i had just one option and dat was Chanakya academy.. so these ppl told me that they wud start wid teh batch from 1st wek of nov.. but later they said.. they ll start after 15th nov.. as thr is diwali and all that... and den later they said 1st dec.. i was still fine... but today wen i went thr they went like we ll be starting from 3rd week of dec... now they just teated my patience... i abused them wid all the gaalis known to me... and that bitch was like.. mam aap kahin aur dekh lijiye.. i sid.. koi credibility hai.. and since i registered thr.. i asked that bitch to give my money back.. she said no.. and den she left me wid no option... i did her ma behan ek.. and i told her.. lemme call the police and drag u down the stairs into the lockup.. and let this crap come in the newspaper...

and suddenly i just bursted out.. after all this i started crying.. i m still wondering why i did so..i had stayed in delhi for four months already..i dotn know whether i ll be allowed for next four months... all these thgs just started flashing my mind.. i cant afford to sit back and do nothing bout it..

later i went down . recollected myself and sat in the car..guess the driver noticed somethg.. and he said.. arey apne wo hai na...unhone ek academy kholi hai... saab ko pata hoga... ek DS hai uska beta wahin hai.. and i called my dad in law and old him the entire scene.. minus that i cried... he said.. beta ghar aa jao.. fir dekhte hain...

god damn it.. days r passing by just like dat.. look at me.. doing nothing but blogging... iu dont wanna be a loser... i m fine if i dont achieve wat i want.. but i dont wanna leave any stone unturned... GOD help!!.....

dont forget..

when the stars exploded billion of years ago...

they formed everythg that is this world..everythg we know is stardust!!

so dont forget that we are star dust!!!!

i wanna be mean.

can someone teach me to...

back to roots!

after shadi i had never been to 'gaon'... so now it was 'gaon' calling for me..

its a small village near jaipur rajasthan... a journey of like 12hrs from gandhinagar gujarat.. the longest i ever travelled...

wen they not asked but told me that we r going.. i was so petrified.. coz not to forget i was going to a completely rural place.. so the protocols were completely different...

also not to forget the very fact of that place being my sasural...

so wat all protocols i followed n wat all i did...

1.complete 'ghoonghat' even my neck shudnt be visible... it doesnt matter whther i topple down ... thkfully i did not.. but i completely igmored the presence of certain ppl coz i really didnt see them.. rather i cudnt see them..

2.brooming up the entire home..

3. making the meal for more then 20 ppl.. day in and day out... thk god thr was normal stove as well..

though thr was a lady.. who got 2 and a half kg aata doughed.. and she came to my mom in law.. and said... 'beendnhi ko bhejo.. roti bana degi chulhe per'... i heard her saying this.. and before i was all set to find a place to hide.. my mom in law straight away told her... use nahi aati banani ... kisi aur ko bol do...

4.i went and washed bartan also... ask me how... wid mitti... trust me its fun... take a plate.. wet it.. put a lot of mitti.. and wipe it off. and den wash it under the tap... and its done.. no detergent required...

5.every body slept thr by 7.. so did i... woke up at 5... no TV so i heard some songs on my cell..

6.everybody liked me.. they said so.. not my wrds... arey kitni achhi hai... ghoonghat bhi karti hai... kaam bhi janti hai karna... (my diwali time practice came handy)

7.wearing salwar kameez is out of the question...i wore saree ... its litttle difficult for me to wear.. and widout a mirror is just next to impossible.. but i managed.. :-)

8. i m not suppose to sit wen husband is around... i need not talk to him.. i need not call him...

9.no hot water to take a bath.. only thanda pani...

over all i had a lot of fun... i made frds thr...wid the nieces and nephews... and i turned out to be the favourite 'chachi'... and like a pied piper..the lil kids of the family were after me whr ever i went... made me feel very comfortable... i fed them wid chocolates and toffees... he he he... it was difficult for them to pronounce 'abhilasha'... but den i taught them....

'abhi' bolo ab 'lasha' bolo... ab dono ko ek sath bolo... abhiiiiii.....laashaaa..... abhilasha chachi talk of the town.. sorry gaon...

yesterday that was 17th we came back... three days just went like that... i had the most peaceful sleep thr... i had a good time... i m really looking forward for the next trip....

in Rome..do as the romans do... thats the way it is.... :-)

diwali and my very own doppleganger

so all the ho-halla of diwali is over... i hope it went on fine for everyone....

and wat i found was my doppelganger...

i never thought i could really do wat all i did on dis diwali... so from 2nd nov onwards.,.,,,evrythg else ll go down in the history,...

thgs i did for the very first time in my life and also in almost four years of my married life...

1.i made a dough (courtesy mom in law..she taught me how to)

2.i made 14 chappatis as wel.. in one go... (i need an applause.. thk u) and one day i made daal baati churma as well...(thats the traditional dish)

3.i instructed how to lighten up the house...lightings n all...

4.i made rangoli...(dis is somethg i always saw on tv)

5.i went to vegetable market wid dad in law..

6. though i m not into crackers.. but i bravely did the rocket and the seven star thg...

though all this left me completely exhausted..so many guests and gifts ;-).. and of course my violent way of opening the gifts... i told my dad in law.. daddy those who r coming widout gifts need not enter... i ll not offer them sweets..

so that doppleganger thg.. i never thought i cud wrk so much... i was completely tired.. tired to the stage that i was waiting for the day to end asap...so that i can just dozz off... but den i checked my limits... i pushed the envelope a little harder... a little extra mile... and so i met a new me.. a new abhilasha... abhilasha who looks just like me.. but she is a grown up gal.. she can handle her house hold course now... and now she knows that whr she thks she cant do any more... thats the point from which she has to actually start...

PS: i ll put a picture of the rangoli and also of the lightings that i got it done...