Wednesday, August 25, 2010

silent mode..

for the very occasion of rakshabandhan wen i was suppose to be wid my brothers.. i left them and went to gujarat (sasural)... ask me why?? coz my sis in law was coming wid her husband.. and being the bahu i was suppose to be thr... though i never crib on small issues.. but i seriously wanted to be wid my brothers....

so i went on 20th.. and i came back on 25th...

after my sis in laws wedding.. i was meeting her for the first time... and her husband too... i was kinda excited... i thought that it ll be great fun.. i ll chit chat... go out .. and get to know the new entrant of the family little more... to my surprise it turned out to be opposite... her husband turned out to be cmpletely in the silent mode... he didnt utter anythg.. i thought he must be feeling shy... but no i think he is dumb.. he just didnt speak anythg... and it was me who was constantly chatting.... i was like he should feel comfortable.... but two days passed... he didnt say anythg... so my husband said.. let him be... guess he is too dumb....

but fir main to main hun... aise kaise chhod dete.... i asked him...
aapne Dil Chahta Hai.. dekhi hai... he said yes...
i said usmein jo subodh hai na.. wo aap ho... u r just like him... and guess he was completely dumbstruck... and i told him subodh's character in detail.... i m sure he didnt like it... but who cares....
husband gave me the weirdest look.. and told me... devi ji... sab aapki tarah street smart nahi hote.. baksho aise logo ko... he doesnt know u r the queen. its an honour to talk to u... poor him ... ignorant of it...
i told my sis in law... agli baar aao to isse sikha ke laana... aur iska mode change karke...


i dont know.. i dont like such ppl... we r not thr to entertain u... conversation is always two sided... i m often scared of silent mode sort of ppl... wonder wat all goes in thr mind... wat sort of permutations and combinations they wrk on..

7 comments:

  1. hehehe..Abhilasha,hats off to u, for trying so hard to begin a conversation..u know a secret?I'm also the quiet type at first. But, once I get to know a person,specially of the chit-chat type, I begin to open up and talk freely.;)Of course,my philosophy is that since I'm a better listener, might as well let people make fools of themselves while I grin away inwardly...(hahaha..that line was just to make u sit up and read the comment again..i'm not saying it seriously)..I do observe humanity by being quieter than the next person, of course- you'll see how when u read my flight/airport experience in the new post.

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  2. aap ney rakshabandhan ka revenge toh nahi liya?

    vaisey I also do not speak too much...

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  3. arey baba... being quiet is understndable.. but being on a 'silent mode' is different... mainu ki... main to apna mezbaan hone ka farz nibha rahi thi.. ab nibha liya... next time they ll gonna meet different abhilasha...

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  4. hmmmm...waise i speak a lot... as in a lot... i like ppl who talk... but i prefer ppl who listen more... i get bored in the company whr thr is someone who talks more then me.. i often start yawning...me a bad listener... i cant sit and listen to anybody's katha... my input has to be thr... dichotomy it is... i dont like ppl who just dont talk... i also dont like ppl who talk to much... but one thg is for sure... i love myself... me talking or not talking..

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  5. happy rakshabandan di( belated) ....n i we hav a lot in common...i speak a lot as well...n u knw it...:)

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  6. hmmmmm.... arey tu to pyara sa bachha hai... n i m glad tera ceasefire ho gaya hai ... good boy...

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