guj visit

reminder 2- Ashish sharma plz give my digi cam... if u want to buy it den gimme 15K.. i m all set to sell it off to the one who is in love wid it... plz de deyar... apne bachho ki mundan ceremony ke baad dega kya... dont force me to send cops at ur place..just because u got few stuff (2 T shirts,a dress,two footwear,t shits for my brother,cosmetics,hand bag) from Australia u think i ll spare u.. plz find better ways to call me to ur place...

me in gujarat.. came on 28th going back on 31st...

reason for a sudden visit... "baby! how do u look,,, i have forgotten ur face".....isse pehle ki husband starts calling me.. abhilasha ben.. i though ii must rush to him... anyways.. he calls me a guest faculty.... its just a matter of a month sweetheart ..

i thought i ll avoid mentioning my mother in law.. but den every effort goes in vain...so here it is..

a day before i came...

me-hello momy!.. main soch rahi thi ki main teen chaar din ke liye aa jaun...

mil-kyon! teri class nahi hai kya... miss karegi to fir dekhna..

me-nahi momy! classs nahi hai... thoda breeak diya hai.. wapis 1st april se hai..(i lied)

mil-haan aa ja.. achha hi rahega...

me-kuchh lana hai aapke liye yahan se..

mil-haan! dekh le.. teen chaar suits le aana... aur kuchh achha lage.. tu dekh lena,...

me-:-) haan momy!... main le aaungi...

mil-arey seema (sis in law) ke liye bhi..

me-haan haan momy! bilkul..chalo rakhti hun.. class jana hai... (fav show coming on tv)

the day i reached

me-aa gayi main momy!!..

mil-achha kiya..

me-haan! wahi na.. dekho aapko suits achhe lage to theek hai,.. else i ll get them changed..

mil-achhe hain!... khud ke liye nahi liye kya..

me- le lungi.. kahan ja rahi hun...

mil-tujhe meri jaisi saas kabhi milegi.. tera kitna kaam karti hun.. tera room dekh... teri almirah dekh.. faela kar chale jati hai... tere sandals dekh kaise arrange kare hain maine... koi ehsaan hi nahi hai...

me-arey! momy!! aap to aap ho na.. aap ho hi itne achhe... main to abhi seekh rahi hun na.. i really look upto u.. main apnni almirah chahe set bhi kar lun.. but the way u keep it is remarkable.... exceptional...

mil-dekha.. sab yahi kehte hain... main itne theek se rakhti hun... ki andhere mein bhi main bata sakti hun kahan kya rakha hai...

me-wahi na... aap jaise bahut kamm log hain... n its a compliment..

fil-haan haan!! chadha apni saas ko.. kaam karaye ja meri biwi se..

me-kya daddy... zyada ustaad ban rahe ho lag raha hai.... kyon bol rahe ho... fir chiddh jayegi mom...

fil-haan chal ab makkhan mat laga...take rest!

husband dear- ab panchayat karti rahegi kya..bakwas karva lo bas...kabhi chup bhi reh liya kar..

sigh!!!!

more bout the trip..

as promised ... here comes more bout the trip...

amidst the temperature of below zero degree... water .. rain... mud...

the trip was finalised i think even before my birth... my dear parents went to vaishno devi and asked for a daughter and the barter was.. if they get a darling daughter she wud come in return...i mean excuse me... if u made the deal.. it was suppose to be on u... so from that time till 12th feb 2011.. abhilasha was struggling hard to be thr.. and not to forget that my dear parents took no pain to take me to the respective place... so finally it was suppose to be wid my frds/.. i even asked my husband to accompany me but den he is like.. any place but a pilgrimage.. he financed and wished me luck to carry on..

poor husband not just financed for me.. but also for my frds..

reached thr .. took a hotel.. and then started for the journey... tough it is.. really hard.. reached up thr by 11 but it took like 4 hrs to finally reach the shrine...

my experience wen i reached thr.. was beyond the ideas that i had in my head...it was serene.. a deep calmness... a cool breeze... dont know how to put it in wrds... somethg inside me was quite... quite for a fraction of second.. as if .. this was the day i was longing for.. i m spiritual but yeah religious in its literal sense no i m not... but den it was diferent... cant be described,... all of a sudden i felt a jerk.. and i told my frds/... somethg mite happen to me... dis is the day i was waiting for... and i told dem.. if somethg happens to me... plz take care... these were my last wrds.. i remember so vividly... and den i just collapsed .. as told to me by my frds.. and after that i have no idea wat happened.. my frd lifted me to the near by bench... all the near by uncles and aunties surrounded us... some water, some glucose.. some medicine i think.. i dont know..but then after a while i recollected myself... my frds said.. abhi lets go back.. i told dem.. "ab yahan tak aa gaye hain.. to wapis nahi jayenge".... nd finally we joined the queue again...

now the funny part starts,,,, frds kept on teasing me.. show stopper..le gayi saari limelight... agar aisa kuchh karna hi tha to aage kar leti thoda... humein line mein nahi lagna padta... aage peechhe wali aunties were like.. arey wo theek ho gayi jo tumhare sath thi... i was like,,, aunty wo main hi thi... boo hoo!!!...

darshan got over.. we went further up... at 3.. all dark.. no electricity.. me on a horse.. side mein khaayi... filmy scene lag raha hai na...i know man!... bad it was... but den ab yaad karti hun to achha lagta hai...

while coming back.. it was raining badly.. we bought rain coats... RS.5 per head.. den we took a shelter at a dharamshala... i encountered somethg strange... and weird... in a hall full of 50 ppl...thr were two uncle aunty.. 40+ to honge hi... in one blanket... dont know wat they were upto... so many ppl are lying by ur side... thodi to sharam kar lo yar... in the middle of 50 ppl... how can one make out.. may be they found the apt place for the honeymoon.... but den saanu ki....we were like.... btw abhi.. wat do u think wats goign on... i was like... why dont u give the commentary... and he just started off... hilarious it was...

den we came back to our hotel room... slept like logs...den came back on 14th...

dont know.. wen ll i be going back to the same place.. one thg is for sure.. i had experienced somethg beyond wrds... soemthg i ll always hold on to.. now n forever..