car-religion-miracle-ditch

got late for the class... was looking for a parking but cudnt get.. so i was trying to take reverse... and en wt happened... right front tyre got into a ditch... now i was in a situation whr i was stuck.. gettign late for the class (to hell wid the class....) hay!! meri gaadhi... ab to band baji pakka...
tried calling "Race" ppl...(helpline) but they didnt take the call...
so i went to a near by mandir.. n thr were two guys sittign.. i asked for help.. guess they were in a fun mode.. they said..."in aunty ko bhi sath le lein" (aunty was 80 yr old.. felt like kicking the two.. but then got to behave wisely.. time to make 'gadhe ko baap'.. i called up my cousin den..."bhai jaldi aa.. gaadhi gaddhe mein gayi"...
but then thr was another guy who was enjoying the scene... he wanted to help but was just waiting for me to say i guess.. so he came.. i didnt say anythg to him.. like plz help me and all that.. i just gave him my car keys...
so now the scene was like.. those two mandir wala guys lifted my car from front.. and he took a reverse and it was out...and i was introspecting the entire scene..wid a surdy uncle... i said thk u and all that... later i asked him... ab u helped me itna.. now plz park it also... he felt like a hero!! and he parked in the no parking zone...in front of his own house... (i m glad to be born as a gal.. and mind u pretty one).. and den the final blow...
hi!! i m Prince... and u... Abhilasha....phewwww!!!

later i rushed to the class... and the topic going on was... 'philosophy of religion'- sub topic... god's miracle... meanwhile i was relaxing myself a bit..n i guess i turned rude to a classmate.. he was so desperate to tell me... tht look! abhilasha.. the guy sittign next to u is also from rajasthan... arey!!.. so wat to do... should i marry him!!! pheww!!!! and one of the classmate asked me.."abhilasha-why were u roaming around here n thr..wat was wrong... i said nothing"... tabhi to site the miracle's example... a guy said..."sir!! for example.. if i m driving and my car gets into a ditch.. and i get an instant help.. thts a miracle.."
my my my!!!.. my heart was completely in my mouth... n i said..!! Sir!!! i agree... thats sure a miracle... but i kept wondering... how come he qouted such n example.. did he see me struggling.. but he doesnt know me.. met him for the first time.. new entry he is...
anyways.. i just cudnt pay attention in the class... my cousin said... beta!! is new brand car ka dabba banakar hi jana hai kya... kuchh aur bhi karna hai to do it in one go... get a nano..!! dont drive the mammoth..
anyways.. lets get back to Prince ;-)... after history class i reached my car at 9... so listening to the CLS.. the macho!! hero!!! came out of his house... wat if this lady needs a help again... and to embarass me more... my frds started... yar ye hai kya wo!! ye hai kya...
maine kaha baksho yar... already got a bad day...
so finally the day ended wid me giving lift to a history wala classmate..
husband!!(yes! i have one...) wen i told him all this...i asked him.. tumhe ajeeb nahi lagta... main kaisi si hun... always upto somethg... to that he said.. abhi kuchh nahi kar sakte... but i m sure... i ll let ur brother know.. that save ur car... behan bigad gayi hai.... gaaddhi ki band baja rahi hai. and aajkal to ladko ko lift bhi de rahi hai... ;-) ;-)....




brother saw me scribbling dis blog... he read the entire thg on his lappy... i tried running and snatching the lappy from him so that i could delete the blog... but i failed.. so before he could say anythg to me.. i told him... i have told dad already.. so u need not blackmail me.... and for god sake dont intrude my privacy by reading my blog... and the best of all.. i started crying before he said anythg... and i told him.. theek hai... ab to main jaane hi wali hun.. jo shikayat karni hai kar le...
;-) it worked!!!... he said chal koi na... but take care!!.....even i want to use it at times... cant drive a Tin...

love and hate!!

you have love and hate. Love is the thesis, hate is the antithesis; and most people die caught in the struggle, conflict, between the two. They are never able to see that there is a subtle connection between love and hate; that they are not two energies but one energy having two polarities. They are just like the negative and positive in electricity -- but it is electricity all the same.

Hate is also a kind of love standing upside down. It happens that you can forget your friend, but you cannot forget your enemy. The enemy haunts you more than the friend. You think more of destroying the enemy than helping the friend. The reason is that love is a thesis -- simple. Hate is an antithesis -- it has become more complicated. It has become negation, and negativity has an attraction -- for many reasons.

One is afraid of negativity because you cannot hate someone without creating a wound within yourself. Nobody pretends hate. It is always authentic, because why should one pretend hate? -- It hurts.

People pretend love; they may not be really in love, but the very idea that they are in love is soothing. So love can remain superficial; but hate always goes deep -- it cannot remain superficial. That's why one becomes more concerned about the enemy than about friends.

rang de basanti!! and much more

in second yr of my college.. it was monday... bhai dropped me to the college.. and he went to his... though thr ws supoose to be some chhutti but i rebelled that no! i have to go... ...but thr was actually a chhutti...
so me n my frds made up a plan to go for this movie... so right for the morning show we were thr.... movie was nice.. wid my expert comments... and critical observation and ravan laughter we had a great fun... after the show was over.. some one tapped at my shoulder... i kinda ignored... den again it was... i turned... n then wat happened goes like dis--
my heart was in my mouth.. it was my brother... who just sometime ago had dropped me to the college... n here i was enjoying the movie... n he went like,,. tu ghar aa tujhe batata hun....n d rest is history!!!! phewwww!!!!....

and den history repeated itself... younger brother went for a date wid his gf to see prom night...n i caught him... ask me how... media ppl were asking for thr response on the movie..n i caught him on the tv.. and he still asks me how i came to know... so i told him i have a pact wid theatre ppl... so now everytime he goes out...even if i m in gujarat he tells me..
cool know!!!

i made a fool out of me..

after a break of six days.. i went to the class today...
so thr was this guy who asked me.. whr were u...why didnt u come... so i told him.. i went to gujarat... he asked me why... so i told him sasural hai... he was like ok...
nd den the usual question... u like that place.. how come u thr... and den i said no its nice...
so he started off... even i have been to baroda for some match...so i said... ya its a nice place... i hae been thr once.. but ppl thr... consider themselves as dude and dudettes.. think they r too ahead.... and my chattar pattar and burai session continued,,,
so wen i stopped..he said.. aapke peechhe jo bathe hain wo dono gujarati hain... i turned n asked them,,,
oh! aap gujarati ho.. nice.... to that they said ... BARODA!!!!
n i was like... nice... to cover it all up.. i asked one of the guys... "su kare chhe papa???"
just to sh ow them... main bhi aap mein se hi ek hun...main bhi gujarati ho gayi hun... plz mujhe gaaliyan mat dena... but still u guys can never be dudes... he he he!!!!

silent mode..

for the very occasion of rakshabandhan wen i was suppose to be wid my brothers.. i left them and went to gujarat (sasural)... ask me why?? coz my sis in law was coming wid her husband.. and being the bahu i was suppose to be thr... though i never crib on small issues.. but i seriously wanted to be wid my brothers....

so i went on 20th.. and i came back on 25th...

after my sis in laws wedding.. i was meeting her for the first time... and her husband too... i was kinda excited... i thought that it ll be great fun.. i ll chit chat... go out .. and get to know the new entrant of the family little more... to my surprise it turned out to be opposite... her husband turned out to be cmpletely in the silent mode... he didnt utter anythg.. i thought he must be feeling shy... but no i think he is dumb.. he just didnt speak anythg... and it was me who was constantly chatting.... i was like he should feel comfortable.... but two days passed... he didnt say anythg... so my husband said.. let him be... guess he is too dumb....

but fir main to main hun... aise kaise chhod dete.... i asked him...
aapne Dil Chahta Hai.. dekhi hai... he said yes...
i said usmein jo subodh hai na.. wo aap ho... u r just like him... and guess he was completely dumbstruck... and i told him subodh's character in detail.... i m sure he didnt like it... but who cares....
husband gave me the weirdest look.. and told me... devi ji... sab aapki tarah street smart nahi hote.. baksho aise logo ko... he doesnt know u r the queen. its an honour to talk to u... poor him ... ignorant of it...
i told my sis in law... agli baar aao to isse sikha ke laana... aur iska mode change karke...


i dont know.. i dont like such ppl... we r not thr to entertain u... conversation is always two sided... i m often scared of silent mode sort of ppl... wonder wat all goes in thr mind... wat sort of permutations and combinations they wrk on..

the peace treaty

so now.. wen all the ways have been tried and tested.. me n my elder brother have zeroed upon on one thg... and that is the PEACE TREATY.... both of us have signed the peace treaty... and that says.. no more fights.. no more quarreling... atleast till rakhshabandhan....

this treaty has been signed in the presence of dad and mom...

it says...

1.no more taunts..

2.ll do each others wrk if its in the vicinity... as in.. if i m not suppose to get from my place i ll... it should be in the reach of my hand..

3.i ll not do anythg if i m studying (even if i m wid a open book but no music)

4.i ll not get up if i m watching TV.. as i hardly watch...

5.no more track on the expenses.. no more interventions in each others business..

6.no checking of the cell phones...

7.no more snatching away of the laptop...

8.i ll not order him...

9.i ll not shout...

wonder till wat duration we ll stick to it... but as of now.. the peace and order is maintained... ll keep posting the latest developments...